Saturday, October 2, 2010

Love, Hurt, Heal...Forgive

Stress can kill you or so I'm told. If that's a true statement I may be on my last leg. Why is making a decision and carrying out the task so hard sometimes. When life deals us a difficult card its hard to make the decision for what should happen as a result. We are afraid of hurting others so we continue to allow ourselves to hurt. At some point we have to make a decision. Whose happiness is more important? Ours or theirs? or should I say "Mine"? Mine....Mine....How often do we really do what we want. Do we live our life for others or for ourselves.

I hate to say it but as old as I am, I should already have this figured out! This life thing I mean, this love thing too! But do we ever REALLY have it figured out or is it a day by day situation. A circle...love, hurt, heal...love, hurt, heal. When can it be love, love, laugh, love. I rather prefer the latter option. But that's not realistic eh? Or is it? Maybe sometimes we choose the wrong people to include in our lives and we have to pay the price for those decisions. Or is it just that people make mistakes! We have to decide whether or not we can get beyond those mistakes and move on....uh oh.. there's that forgiveness factor again. But forgiveness doesn't mean that you have to continue to be in that person's life right? Right! Right???